FAQ

Three ways: Evidence, evidence, evidence. I should be able to tell you specific shared memories you have with that person, and/or how they passed, sometimes numbers that relate to your or them (birthdates, house numbers, age, etc.), stories from their life, things that made them who they are (they bowled every Tuesday night, or loved a certain song, or struggled with addiction in some form). I don't believe I'm doing my part correctly if I tell you "this is your grandma," and expect you to believe it ... you should KNOW and recognize it's your beloved grandma by the evidence.

Some Spirit do very well giving me specific evidence like numbers or details of their death. Others flood me with pieces of conversation you had with them, or what you did the day they died, etc.  Not every experience is the same because every Spirit is different.

Once we agree on the appointment and you've paid your fee, it's time to start preparing yourself for the reading. Come in open to anything! The  more engaged you are in the reading, the  more energy we have during our reading together -- and that brings Spirit closer every time.

It is common for me to get someone that you know come through first that isn't who you were expecting, like your parents' neighbor lady who gave you extra candy bars on Halloween; or a classmate of yours that passed while you were all young, and it's been a very long time since your school days. My practice is to welcome them in and hear what they have to say. For me these folks tend to be the opening act, and after them comes Spirit who were closer to you in your lifetime.

I stopped counting the number of times someone contacted me after a reading and had more details about the first person who came through once they told family or friends about their reading.

No, it's not. I believe our God created us out of love and goodness, and that He, like any good father, wants what's best for us. If you're Christian, you know that when Jesus found out Lazarus died, He wept. God knows how much it hurts us to lose someone. This "phone call home" between you and your people in Spirit, I believe, is meant to help you further heal from your grief, to give you peace and a renewed effort to live in this life right now, knowing the person you miss is thriving where they are.

You and I don't have to have the same belief system to have a great experience with Spirit; just know that none of what I do as a medium is negative, dark or evil.